You probably think I'm going to talk about how you should practice and never quit trying until you win. Nope. Though that is true. Instead, I'm going to illustrate what tension looks and feels like. My husband and I love watching the Olympics. We're not all that caught up in who wins. We genuinely want all the athletes to do well as they take their history-making runs. We sit on the couch to watch the skiers and snowboarders. My body tenses as they start off. I'm leaning forward, alert. I'm practically holding my breath as they defy gravity to make it down the hill. I fist pump when a move goes well. "Yes! Did you see that? Wow." I gasp and raise my hands to my lips when they fall. "Oh crap. Are they okay? That must suck." I exclaim when the judges, in my humble opinion, get it wrong. Irritation ignited a verbal response. "What the heck were they thinking?" "That other guy totally did better." "Th...