This top post of 2016 was first published on June 2nd. Your characters should be multi-faceted. They should have strengths and weaknesses. Wounds from life that haven't healed can supply internal conflict or motivate them to take on the overall story problem. However, if your character is so lacking in self-esteem that he is not equal to tackling the overall story problem or so sniveling or pathetic the reader can’t get behind him, it is a serious plot fail. If you decide to burden your characters with low self-esteem at least understand the why and how. Use the problem judiciously to motivate them, not from a standpoint of ignorance. Choose the degree of affliction carefully. As children grow up, there are several ways in which their self-esteem is damaged. 1. Healthy self-esteem requires competence. A child needs to feel self-confident and independent. If Dick, as a child, is not allowed to master things, to build self-confidence and independence, he becomes weak ...